So, my S-I-L who also blogs has started a "Joyful Mom Monday" blogging series where people can link up their blog to hers and we can all read what the other wrote about mothering. (At least that's what I think it means...I haven't delved too deeply into the blogging experience, other than to figure out who to work my own...barely.) Anyway, I wanted to see if I could actually figure this out, and also wanted to encourage her in her new venture, so I am going to attempt to take part in this--periodically. My blogging has suffered lately--I think it's because I'm a little busy right now--haha!
Since I decided to try to take part in this, I have been thinking about being joyful as a mom, and as a "regular" person. For those of you who may not know me, the sort-of theme of my blog is taking the time to look for those little moments of joy and fun in your life--the "Lego" moments. Like opening your make-up drawer to find a Lego pirate man looking up at you. :)
I think a big part of being joyful as a mom--and as a "regular" person too--is looking for those moments. Some people may think that mothers are just full of fun and joy because, after all they are moms. I mean, you're surrounded by happy, funny little people all day, who love you and need you more than anything else. Your life must be overflowing with joy and happiness, right?
Well, yes, in some sense. In the sense that children are a blessing from the Lord, and therefore a source of joy. In the sense that they are gifts to be nurtured, and that God has entrusted you (me!!) to train and care for them. But these are the more--hmmm, how can I put it--ethereal aspects of the joy of motherhood. The kind that are there, but it's-sometimes-hard-to-see-it way. The joy you think is going to be a part of your everyday life when you become a mother--and then you bring your baby home from the hospital.
And you quickly realize that mommy-ing isn't what you see on the Johnson&Johnson commercials. You know--the beautiful, swaddled infant contentedly snuggling with his miraculously slender post-baby mother. It's more about 3am, walking miles in your living room with a writhing starfish that used to be your long-awaited baby. That's when you have to start looking for the moments of joy.
But I think this is true of any person's life. If we do not look for the joys that are in front of us, then it is very easy to miss them. In the hustle and bustle of "the daily grind" we have to be actively searching for the moments of joy. Sometimes it's easier than other times. There are days in mothering when you are surrounded by happy little people and it's easy to have joy. Just like in life, when things are going great and it's easy to think of those joyful moments. Then there are other days. Loss of a job, unexpected illness, or one of the many other difficult things life may hold for us. Those are the times when it's difficult to see what we can be joyful about.
As Christians, our example in all things is Jesus. He is what we aspire to be like. And He had to look for the joy in the difficult circumstances in His life as well. In Hebrews 12:2, it says "Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God." (Emphasis mine.) To me, this verse is telling me that Jesus had to remind himself of the joy that was to come during the hardest time in His life.
So, be encouraged mommies! It's okay to have to look hard for the joy some days. Just so long as you are looking. Because that's what's important...to look! And you'll find them more often than you think...like Legos scattered in your house! :)
Be sure to check out the other "Joyful Mom" blogs for today as well! Because, let's face it, Mondays can always use a little more joy! :)
Monday, October 15, 2012
Thursday, October 11, 2012
Just Checking In!
It's been a little while since I did a "just checking in" post. I thought it would be good to run down what we've been up to lately around here!
The kiddos: The boys have been doing okay lately. We seem to be going through a "phase" or two, especially with the eldest and the youngest. It has been the topic of many late-night conversations between Daddy and Mommy. We don't dismiss the boys behavior as "just a phase"--it is something that needs to be recognized and dealt with accordingly. But we like to determine if there is a root cause for the behavior that stems from something else going on in our lives. We have had a lot of changes, and there are several more big ones coming up, and this can cause upheaval in little ones' lives! Which they act on the only way they can--by acting up! Our biggest issue right now is speaking respectfully. First-Born tends to be precocious for his age, and very verbal, and doesn't think the things he thinks (and then says) can be disrespectful to those around him. Especially to Mommy. He has definitely out-grown the "little boy" stage of his life, and has required Daddy's firm hand several times recently. One of the most difficult things to instill is to think first, and speak second--there are lots of grown-ups who still struggle with this! Stitch is at that 3-year old talkative stage, and has picked up "answering back" from big brother. *Sigh--it's funny--undesirable behaviors are like germs; they get passed around!
The Baby: Things are going well with the upcoming little one! We are already being blessed with little girl things, and the shower isn't until December! I was thinking about the blog, and realized I need to think of a good code name for her...any suggestions? The doctor said things looked great at the last check-up. I admit, I asked him if I was measuring bigger than normal, because I've been feeling huge lately. He said I wasn't, and that it was just fourth-baby issues. Baby's getting stronger though--Daddy got to feel her really kicking the other night! :)
Our ministry: This is something I have to keep reminding myself...sometimes on a minute-by-minute basis. This is not a job...it is a ministry! This keeps me from getting frustrated with being outside the home, feeling like things are slipping through the cracks, or dealing with one more behavior issue at school. In moments of complete honesty I must admit that I miss being a "stay-at-home" mom. Looking back, life seemed so much simpler then! Now, I am feeling pulled in a million directions at once! I know Satan can use these thoughts to discourage, so I pray a lot through the day for wisdom and strength. And I keep reminding myself that this is God's direction for our family right now, and He will give us the strength to persevere!
Well, that about wraps it up for what's going on around here in our day-to-day life! It's time to jump back in--two little boys need their baths, and then it's bedtime for three rambunctious boys and one not-so-rambunctious Mommy! After lunches are packed, and laundry is put away, of course! "Little by little, inch by inch..." :)
The kiddos: The boys have been doing okay lately. We seem to be going through a "phase" or two, especially with the eldest and the youngest. It has been the topic of many late-night conversations between Daddy and Mommy. We don't dismiss the boys behavior as "just a phase"--it is something that needs to be recognized and dealt with accordingly. But we like to determine if there is a root cause for the behavior that stems from something else going on in our lives. We have had a lot of changes, and there are several more big ones coming up, and this can cause upheaval in little ones' lives! Which they act on the only way they can--by acting up! Our biggest issue right now is speaking respectfully. First-Born tends to be precocious for his age, and very verbal, and doesn't think the things he thinks (and then says) can be disrespectful to those around him. Especially to Mommy. He has definitely out-grown the "little boy" stage of his life, and has required Daddy's firm hand several times recently. One of the most difficult things to instill is to think first, and speak second--there are lots of grown-ups who still struggle with this! Stitch is at that 3-year old talkative stage, and has picked up "answering back" from big brother. *Sigh--it's funny--undesirable behaviors are like germs; they get passed around!
The Baby: Things are going well with the upcoming little one! We are already being blessed with little girl things, and the shower isn't until December! I was thinking about the blog, and realized I need to think of a good code name for her...any suggestions? The doctor said things looked great at the last check-up. I admit, I asked him if I was measuring bigger than normal, because I've been feeling huge lately. He said I wasn't, and that it was just fourth-baby issues. Baby's getting stronger though--Daddy got to feel her really kicking the other night! :)
Our ministry: This is something I have to keep reminding myself...sometimes on a minute-by-minute basis. This is not a job...it is a ministry! This keeps me from getting frustrated with being outside the home, feeling like things are slipping through the cracks, or dealing with one more behavior issue at school. In moments of complete honesty I must admit that I miss being a "stay-at-home" mom. Looking back, life seemed so much simpler then! Now, I am feeling pulled in a million directions at once! I know Satan can use these thoughts to discourage, so I pray a lot through the day for wisdom and strength. And I keep reminding myself that this is God's direction for our family right now, and He will give us the strength to persevere!
Well, that about wraps it up for what's going on around here in our day-to-day life! It's time to jump back in--two little boys need their baths, and then it's bedtime for three rambunctious boys and one not-so-rambunctious Mommy! After lunches are packed, and laundry is put away, of course! "Little by little, inch by inch..." :)
Thursday, October 4, 2012
A Much-Needed Family Fun Time!
This weekend we were able to get away for a little trip as a family. It was First-Born's 8th birthday last weekend. One thing we have found that works for us is to take the kids on a trip somewhere for their birthday instead of buying them another "thing." (Because, believe me, we have enough toys to stock a store for a week!) They tend to remember it longer as well. This works especially well for First-Born, because he is a "see-and-learn" kind of kid, rather than a "play-with-a-toy" kind.
So, we decided to take a family member up on their invitation to visit and spend the night, and then head to a wildlife preserve and natural science museum the next day. First-Born is our budding naturalist, and really enjoys learning about God's creatures and creation!
After a fun visit with family, and a yummy breakfast of French Toast, we set off on our adventure. We went to the wildlife preserve first, to beat the heat of the day. This preserve mainly focused on birds, and we were able to see several different kinds of birds, plus...an eagle's nest! This was VERY exciting to the boys, as they love eagles, and have never seen a nest that big before! Here is a picture of it from the car...
We also went for a hike on one of the nature trails that was a part of the preserve. We always enjoy hiking together, but Daddy said it will obviously be a little while before he can take the noisy boys hunting with him! :)
After the hike, we let First-Born pick where he wanted to go eat lunch. Thankfully for our budget, he picked Arbys, which has a great dollar menu! (When you have a growing family, you judge restaurants based solely on the caliber of their dollar menu. Our favorite pick is Wendys!) So, after a good lunch, we headed to our next destination.
Cooks Pest Control Museum was the next stop. I know, I thought is was odd for a pest control company to have a museum as well. But we had heard good things about it, and it was FREE, so off we went. It turned out to be a really neat place! They had a lot of interesting exhibits of local AL wildlife, plus a good collection of rocks and minerals. The boys thought it was really great, and spent a lot of time looking at each thing. One of their favorites was the stuffed alligator that was right on their level. They just HAD to get a picture doing this...
Then we hopped in the car to head home, with a trip to Dairy Queen for ice cream cones. Mommy was even brave and let the boys eat their cones in the car! There were no messes though, much to my relief! All in all, it was a really great family day...the only problem is, when you have one fun time like that, you always want another one! Hmmm, when's our next day off from school...? :)
So, we decided to take a family member up on their invitation to visit and spend the night, and then head to a wildlife preserve and natural science museum the next day. First-Born is our budding naturalist, and really enjoys learning about God's creatures and creation!
After a fun visit with family, and a yummy breakfast of French Toast, we set off on our adventure. We went to the wildlife preserve first, to beat the heat of the day. This preserve mainly focused on birds, and we were able to see several different kinds of birds, plus...an eagle's nest! This was VERY exciting to the boys, as they love eagles, and have never seen a nest that big before! Here is a picture of it from the car...
We also went for a hike on one of the nature trails that was a part of the preserve. We always enjoy hiking together, but Daddy said it will obviously be a little while before he can take the noisy boys hunting with him! :)
After the hike, we let First-Born pick where he wanted to go eat lunch. Thankfully for our budget, he picked Arbys, which has a great dollar menu! (When you have a growing family, you judge restaurants based solely on the caliber of their dollar menu. Our favorite pick is Wendys!) So, after a good lunch, we headed to our next destination.
Cooks Pest Control Museum was the next stop. I know, I thought is was odd for a pest control company to have a museum as well. But we had heard good things about it, and it was FREE, so off we went. It turned out to be a really neat place! They had a lot of interesting exhibits of local AL wildlife, plus a good collection of rocks and minerals. The boys thought it was really great, and spent a lot of time looking at each thing. One of their favorites was the stuffed alligator that was right on their level. They just HAD to get a picture doing this...
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